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Friday, April 27, 2012
Sex Offenders Pedophilia or Ephebophilia
The media reported the Michael Jackson case incessantly for the duration of his trial. What was tragically lacking are the facts regarding pedophiles/ephebophiles and sexual child abuse.
Studies reveal 62% of girls and 31% of boys will be sexually abused by age 18--considered low based on health services.
--80% are sexually abused by a family member
--19% are abused by someone the child knows and trusts
--1% according to government statistics are abused by strangers
The unbelievable truth: Pedophiles/Ephebophiles conduct themselves as average and ordinary to the world. He or she may be a leader in the church; the community; or business. Pedophiles/ephebophiles seldom fit a classic stereotype--education, socioeconomic status, career or culture.
Furthermore, sexual abuse/incest is more difficult to believe or accept when the person we like, admire, love, and/or marry is the perpetrator. This is precisely why Jackson's family, fans and the uninformed can unequivocally believe he could not possibly be an Ephebophile--sexual attraction to adolescents.
Pedophiles/Ephebophiles are cunning predators with a honed mode of operation. They are experts at manipulation, thus escaping adult reality. They feel entitled, justifying their actions as loving; not harming the child. They expend considerable energy maintaining this illusion to themselves and others. They create a persona of goodness beyond reproach. They go to great lengths to present themselves as exemplary people, who love children. Jackson's defense attorney, Mesereau, invoked this convoluted tactic in response to the judge's ruling that previous accounts of sexual abuse claims, which were settled, was admissible. Mesereau countered, "He [Jackson] also has spent millions on children with AIDS. We can drown them with examples of where Mr. Jackson has been so benevolent, so generous, so charitable, so giving for good causes, that it will make their theory look silly."
Mesereau's statement exemplifies, anyone who sees through the perpetrator's façade is met with admonishment and rebuke for being critical, irrational, racist, out-to-get the person, and/or jealous. The perpetrator is the family emperor with no clothes. "I know my son, and this is ridiculous," Jackson's mother, Katherine Jackson, said in an interview on CBS "The Early Show." She said people who believe Michael is guilty "don't know him." Jackson's father, said his son was beloved around the world but had trouble in the United States because of racism. He said the accuser's motives were clear: "It's about money."
Even more frightening Pedophiles/Ephebophiles do not hold beliefs reflecting society's moral and ethical values. Therefore, coupled with the child's innocence and trust of the abuser usually pressure or violence is seldom required. Thus, the perpetrator can unequivocally state, "I love children. Never-ever. I could never harm a child or anyone. It's not in my heart. It's not who I am." --Michael Jackson, 1993.
There is another insidious aspect to Jackson's contact with adolescents--he flaunts the relationship as 'sweet and innocent' admonishing anyone for believing it is sexual. Using the definition of sexual abuse, Jackson's befriending adolescent boys under the guise of helping them with a life threatening illness and/or sleeping with them, albeit, he slept on the floor and the child slept in his bed, is in and of itself sexual abuse.
"Incest is both sexual abuse and an abuse of power. It is violence that does not require force. Another is using the victim, treating them in a way that they do not want or in a way that is not appropriate by a person with whom a different relationship is required. It is abuse because it does not take into consideration the needs or wishes of the child; rather, it meets the needs of the other person at the child's expense. If the experience has sexual meaning for another person, in lieu of a nurturing purpose for the benefit of the child, it is abuse. If it is unwanted or inappropriate for her age or the relationship, it is abuse. Incest [sexual abuse] can occur through words, sounds, or even exposure of the child to sights or acts that are sexual but do not involve her. If she is forced to see what she does not want to see, for instance, by an exhibitionist, it is abuse. If a child is forced into an experience that is sexual in content or overtone that is abuse.
Studies reveal 62% of girls and 31% of boys will be sexually abused by age 18--considered low based on health services.
--80% are sexually abused by a family member
--19% are abused by someone the child knows and trusts
--1% according to government statistics are abused by strangers
The unbelievable truth: Pedophiles/Ephebophiles conduct themselves as average and ordinary to the world. He or she may be a leader in the church; the community; or business. Pedophiles/ephebophiles seldom fit a classic stereotype--education, socioeconomic status, career or culture.
Furthermore, sexual abuse/incest is more difficult to believe or accept when the person we like, admire, love, and/or marry is the perpetrator. This is precisely why Jackson's family, fans and the uninformed can unequivocally believe he could not possibly be an Ephebophile--sexual attraction to adolescents.
Pedophiles/Ephebophiles are cunning predators with a honed mode of operation. They are experts at manipulation, thus escaping adult reality. They feel entitled, justifying their actions as loving; not harming the child. They expend considerable energy maintaining this illusion to themselves and others. They create a persona of goodness beyond reproach. They go to great lengths to present themselves as exemplary people, who love children. Jackson's defense attorney, Mesereau, invoked this convoluted tactic in response to the judge's ruling that previous accounts of sexual abuse claims, which were settled, was admissible. Mesereau countered, "He [Jackson] also has spent millions on children with AIDS. We can drown them with examples of where Mr. Jackson has been so benevolent, so generous, so charitable, so giving for good causes, that it will make their theory look silly."
Mesereau's statement exemplifies, anyone who sees through the perpetrator's façade is met with admonishment and rebuke for being critical, irrational, racist, out-to-get the person, and/or jealous. The perpetrator is the family emperor with no clothes. "I know my son, and this is ridiculous," Jackson's mother, Katherine Jackson, said in an interview on CBS "The Early Show." She said people who believe Michael is guilty "don't know him." Jackson's father, said his son was beloved around the world but had trouble in the United States because of racism. He said the accuser's motives were clear: "It's about money."
Even more frightening Pedophiles/Ephebophiles do not hold beliefs reflecting society's moral and ethical values. Therefore, coupled with the child's innocence and trust of the abuser usually pressure or violence is seldom required. Thus, the perpetrator can unequivocally state, "I love children. Never-ever. I could never harm a child or anyone. It's not in my heart. It's not who I am." --Michael Jackson, 1993.
There is another insidious aspect to Jackson's contact with adolescents--he flaunts the relationship as 'sweet and innocent' admonishing anyone for believing it is sexual. Using the definition of sexual abuse, Jackson's befriending adolescent boys under the guise of helping them with a life threatening illness and/or sleeping with them, albeit, he slept on the floor and the child slept in his bed, is in and of itself sexual abuse.
"Incest is both sexual abuse and an abuse of power. It is violence that does not require force. Another is using the victim, treating them in a way that they do not want or in a way that is not appropriate by a person with whom a different relationship is required. It is abuse because it does not take into consideration the needs or wishes of the child; rather, it meets the needs of the other person at the child's expense. If the experience has sexual meaning for another person, in lieu of a nurturing purpose for the benefit of the child, it is abuse. If it is unwanted or inappropriate for her age or the relationship, it is abuse. Incest [sexual abuse] can occur through words, sounds, or even exposure of the child to sights or acts that are sexual but do not involve her. If she is forced to see what she does not want to see, for instance, by an exhibitionist, it is abuse. If a child is forced into an experience that is sexual in content or overtone that is abuse.
Monday, April 23, 2012
Experience the Joy of Sex As Your Age
During their menopause years, some women become more interested in making love and trying new things with their loving partner than they ever were, while others find their desire gradually becoming non-existent. Months can pass before they fully realize there's a big problem.
Being in pain, feeling unwell, being uninterested or unable to make love because of antidepressants, relationship issues or family concerns can all contribute to problems in the bedroom.
Decreased libido is commonly caused by hormonal changes - lowered levels of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. Each of these hormones has a specific role in helping you become interested in being intimate with your partner. Estrogen helps you to feel heightened sensitivity and keeps your sexual organs moist and receptive. Progesterone keeps your libido awake. Testosterone, known as the 'desire hormone', also ensures that you can become ready for intercourse! When these hormones drop, so does your overall desire for physical intimacy.
The signs and symptoms that may accompany your menopause experience may not make you feel much like making love, and can include:
* Vaginal dryness, which is a common complaint of women at menopause. It can make comfortable penetration impossible. Declining estrogen levels may cause thinning of your vaginal walls and less lubrication. Intercourse can range from uncomfortable to extremely painful.
* Constantly having to deal with hot flashes, night sweats, and insomnia can leave you feeling exhausted and irritable with zero interest in becoming frisky
* Frequent mood swings can make it difficult to plan intimate times in advance, or get into the mood while it's happening. You may want to, one minute, but you may be completely against it the next. Feelings of guilt, unhappiness, depression and frustration can cause your libido to tank, as can several antidepressant drugs
* Self-image can be a significant factor in a woman's desire for intimacy. If you feel uncomfortable with the way your body may have changed during your menopause years, it may affect your willingness to share physical intimacy with your partner.
* Incontinence, weight gain and changes in your skin and breasts can all affect the way you feel about making love.
* Women who have undergone surgical menopause can have a difficult time accepting their new bodies.
There are many reasons for not making love, but did you know that there are at least 15 health-enhancing benefits to having sexual intercourse with a loving partner? Chief among the health benefits of sex for women is it helps you live longer! Other benefits include lowering stress and pain, increasing your body's production of estrogen, slowing aging, better sleep, raising your self-esteem, burning calories, feeling happier, feeling intense pleasure and many more!
If the health benefits of sex aren't enough to inspire you to make love more often, don't give up! There are many things you can do to naturally improve your sex drive and ability to have a great time between the sheets during and after menopause!
It's interesting that researchers say the biggest factors in being willing and able to make love as you age are your health, and side effects from medications for high blood pressure, depression, and diabetes!
While communication is the most important aid to intimacy, and the need for closeness never goes away, sometimes you've got to get back to basics to set yourself up for long-term success. It's crucial for life-long wellness to take proper care of your physical, emotional and mental health.
It's especially important in your 40s and 50s to do what it takes to resolve health challenges immediately, if they appear, and make adjustments to lifestyle choices that you've been living with since your 20s or 30s. This means choices re: food, drink, exercise, water consumption, etc. Lifestyle choices, not drugs or added hormones, will have a lasting impact to improve your sex drive and allow you to enjoy greater health and wellness as you age. When you properly nourish yourself with healthy foods, the right supplements, and other healthy lifestyle choices, it's more likely that your body will be able to balance your hormones naturally.
Not convinced that you need to take action now? You may want to remember that change can be difficult enough without being forced to do it later when you're sick or old, or both! The significance of making these changes takes on new meaning when you consider that it may extend the years you're able to enjoy pleasure and intimacy with your partner.
Look for natural menopause remedies that can help you to take back control of your life, and feel and look better than you ever have. A lot can be done without drugs or added hormones, to help you feel more comfortable with your changing body, improve your sex drive and keep the joy in your bedroom!
Being in pain, feeling unwell, being uninterested or unable to make love because of antidepressants, relationship issues or family concerns can all contribute to problems in the bedroom.
Decreased libido is commonly caused by hormonal changes - lowered levels of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. Each of these hormones has a specific role in helping you become interested in being intimate with your partner. Estrogen helps you to feel heightened sensitivity and keeps your sexual organs moist and receptive. Progesterone keeps your libido awake. Testosterone, known as the 'desire hormone', also ensures that you can become ready for intercourse! When these hormones drop, so does your overall desire for physical intimacy.
The signs and symptoms that may accompany your menopause experience may not make you feel much like making love, and can include:
* Vaginal dryness, which is a common complaint of women at menopause. It can make comfortable penetration impossible. Declining estrogen levels may cause thinning of your vaginal walls and less lubrication. Intercourse can range from uncomfortable to extremely painful.
* Constantly having to deal with hot flashes, night sweats, and insomnia can leave you feeling exhausted and irritable with zero interest in becoming frisky
* Frequent mood swings can make it difficult to plan intimate times in advance, or get into the mood while it's happening. You may want to, one minute, but you may be completely against it the next. Feelings of guilt, unhappiness, depression and frustration can cause your libido to tank, as can several antidepressant drugs
* Self-image can be a significant factor in a woman's desire for intimacy. If you feel uncomfortable with the way your body may have changed during your menopause years, it may affect your willingness to share physical intimacy with your partner.
* Incontinence, weight gain and changes in your skin and breasts can all affect the way you feel about making love.
* Women who have undergone surgical menopause can have a difficult time accepting their new bodies.
There are many reasons for not making love, but did you know that there are at least 15 health-enhancing benefits to having sexual intercourse with a loving partner? Chief among the health benefits of sex for women is it helps you live longer! Other benefits include lowering stress and pain, increasing your body's production of estrogen, slowing aging, better sleep, raising your self-esteem, burning calories, feeling happier, feeling intense pleasure and many more!
If the health benefits of sex aren't enough to inspire you to make love more often, don't give up! There are many things you can do to naturally improve your sex drive and ability to have a great time between the sheets during and after menopause!
It's interesting that researchers say the biggest factors in being willing and able to make love as you age are your health, and side effects from medications for high blood pressure, depression, and diabetes!
While communication is the most important aid to intimacy, and the need for closeness never goes away, sometimes you've got to get back to basics to set yourself up for long-term success. It's crucial for life-long wellness to take proper care of your physical, emotional and mental health.
It's especially important in your 40s and 50s to do what it takes to resolve health challenges immediately, if they appear, and make adjustments to lifestyle choices that you've been living with since your 20s or 30s. This means choices re: food, drink, exercise, water consumption, etc. Lifestyle choices, not drugs or added hormones, will have a lasting impact to improve your sex drive and allow you to enjoy greater health and wellness as you age. When you properly nourish yourself with healthy foods, the right supplements, and other healthy lifestyle choices, it's more likely that your body will be able to balance your hormones naturally.
Not convinced that you need to take action now? You may want to remember that change can be difficult enough without being forced to do it later when you're sick or old, or both! The significance of making these changes takes on new meaning when you consider that it may extend the years you're able to enjoy pleasure and intimacy with your partner.
Look for natural menopause remedies that can help you to take back control of your life, and feel and look better than you ever have. A lot can be done without drugs or added hormones, to help you feel more comfortable with your changing body, improve your sex drive and keep the joy in your bedroom!
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
Sex Tips For Men - 10 Ways To Stop Have Boring Sex And Start Having Great Sex
In this article you are going to discover 10 SEX TIPS that you can use to stop having boring sex and start having GREAT SEX.
Many couples start a relationship by having good sex, but as time goes by the sex becomes more and more routine, less and less exciting and happens less and less often.
However, once you've read this article, you'll be able to 'kick-start' your sex-life and put a huge smile on your woman's face every time you take her to the bedroom and 'get naughty' with her.
Read on carefully and have fun with this...
Sex Tips For Men - 10 Ways To Stop Having Boring Sex And Start Having GREAT SEX
1. Try Something New
Doing the same things over and over again is a recipe for boring sex. Therefore, the first step towards having GREAT SEX that happens on a regular basis is to try something NEW.
In fact, if you make the sex different every time, boredom in the bedroom will become a thing of the past.
2. Tease Her
Teasing is exciting for your woman.
Try teasing her to the point where your woman BEGS you for more. Then tease her a little more.
Very powerful.
3. Spank Her
Every woman I've ever come across enjoys being spanked.
Try spanking your woman whilst having sex doggy-style and you'll INSTANTLY increase her sexual excitement. Grab her hair with your other hand and you'll drive her crazy.
Women like sex when it's a little rough.
4. Restrain Her
This gives you all the power and lets your woman just 'get lost' in the sexual experience.
If you've never restrained your woman before, start gently. You can do this by getting some handcuffs from an adult sex store.
5. Talk Dirty
For women, sex is very MENTAL. In order to give your woman great sex, you must stimulate her mind. In the bedroom, you do this with DIRTY TALK.
Dirty talk will immediately make the sex more interesting, fun and exciting and it will make it easier for you to make your woman have an orgasm.
6. Do Her Via Her 'Back Door'
Anal sex is something that many women would love to try.
It's naughty and taboo and women love to GET NAUGHTY in the bedroom.
The way to make your woman BEG YOU for ANAL SEX is to get her to link massive pleasure to having you touch her anus.
7. Have Sex Somewhere A Little Risky
The fear of being caught can be extremely exciting.
You can make this a reality by having sex in an office, in a car park or in a public toilet (or anywhere else you can think of).
8. Give Her An Erotic Massage
Do this by taking your time to touch every part of her body. Use plenty of oil and start with her back, then do her legs, then her bottom and finally -- once she's dripping WET... massage her genitals.
9. Leave Some Of Her Clothes On
This excites many women.
Try leaving her skirt on and just pull her knickers to one side, then have intercourse. Very naughty and a lot of fun.
10. Give Her The Gift Of Vaginal Orgasms
This is the big one.
If you want to give your woman GREAT SEX -- the kind of sex that is incredibly satisfying for both you and her... give her the gift of vaginal orgasms.
Many couples start a relationship by having good sex, but as time goes by the sex becomes more and more routine, less and less exciting and happens less and less often.
However, once you've read this article, you'll be able to 'kick-start' your sex-life and put a huge smile on your woman's face every time you take her to the bedroom and 'get naughty' with her.
Read on carefully and have fun with this...
Sex Tips For Men - 10 Ways To Stop Having Boring Sex And Start Having GREAT SEX
1. Try Something New
Doing the same things over and over again is a recipe for boring sex. Therefore, the first step towards having GREAT SEX that happens on a regular basis is to try something NEW.
In fact, if you make the sex different every time, boredom in the bedroom will become a thing of the past.
2. Tease Her
Teasing is exciting for your woman.
Try teasing her to the point where your woman BEGS you for more. Then tease her a little more.
Very powerful.
3. Spank Her
Every woman I've ever come across enjoys being spanked.
Try spanking your woman whilst having sex doggy-style and you'll INSTANTLY increase her sexual excitement. Grab her hair with your other hand and you'll drive her crazy.
Women like sex when it's a little rough.
4. Restrain Her
This gives you all the power and lets your woman just 'get lost' in the sexual experience.
If you've never restrained your woman before, start gently. You can do this by getting some handcuffs from an adult sex store.
5. Talk Dirty
For women, sex is very MENTAL. In order to give your woman great sex, you must stimulate her mind. In the bedroom, you do this with DIRTY TALK.
Dirty talk will immediately make the sex more interesting, fun and exciting and it will make it easier for you to make your woman have an orgasm.
6. Do Her Via Her 'Back Door'
Anal sex is something that many women would love to try.
It's naughty and taboo and women love to GET NAUGHTY in the bedroom.
The way to make your woman BEG YOU for ANAL SEX is to get her to link massive pleasure to having you touch her anus.
7. Have Sex Somewhere A Little Risky
The fear of being caught can be extremely exciting.
You can make this a reality by having sex in an office, in a car park or in a public toilet (or anywhere else you can think of).
8. Give Her An Erotic Massage
Do this by taking your time to touch every part of her body. Use plenty of oil and start with her back, then do her legs, then her bottom and finally -- once she's dripping WET... massage her genitals.
9. Leave Some Of Her Clothes On
This excites many women.
Try leaving her skirt on and just pull her knickers to one side, then have intercourse. Very naughty and a lot of fun.
10. Give Her The Gift Of Vaginal Orgasms
This is the big one.
If you want to give your woman GREAT SEX -- the kind of sex that is incredibly satisfying for both you and her... give her the gift of vaginal orgasms.
Sunday, April 15, 2012
The 3 Sad Truths About Internet Porn
With the rise of porn on the Internet, many "free" web filters also began showing up. If you've ever used one of these free filters you'll know that they are rubbish. And most of them have lacking features that you need to purchase in order to use. So ultimately you end up paying for what you thought you were getting in the first place! Now there are 3 reasons why free porn blockers are a waste of time, and I'm going to share them with you.
Are They Really "Free"?
Most "no cost" web filters do not present all of the features that it promised initially. It's basically a marketing tool, to give you "a taste" of what the actual filter is all about. And after using this "incomplete" porn blocker, they'll start asking you to purchase bonus packs and other additional software. You may not realize this, but the porn industry is a billion dollar industry. They have been in this business a long time, and they know exactly how to design their adult content to slip "under the nets" of web filters, not to mention a FREE ones! They use various methods of getting their content onto your computer... without the use of a website. All they need is a few misspelled URLs, email links, and Pop-ups to dump their trash onto your desktop. These are just a few of the basic tactics that porn industries use to entice men and boys. So what's the use of downloading a free web-filtering software?
Ineffective Website Blocking
There are no guarantees that your web filter will be able to block all porn because hey, it's free! If you had a filter that blocked out sites containing only mature words and porn company names, all the porn workers have to do is misspell their site's domain name (as mentioned above), or they could simply give their site a neutral name like "White House". The keyword "Playboy" would obviously get blocked, but a keyword like "White House"... of course not.
File Sharing Sites
A free porn blocker is unable to block file-sharing websites. What is a file sharing site, and why do you need to block them? File-sharing sites are where people can come and download free music, videos, games, and almost anything else that's downloadable. But these sites are illegal. They contain free music that someone else paid for (the same goes for movies). So if you can download almost anything at file-sharing sites, then what about porn movie clips? Absolutely.
So now you can see the reasons why free web filters are surely a waste of time. But there's more bad news. Most of the "paid" (yes paid) porn blockers are just as bad as if it were a free one. They cannot stop the examples mentioned above. So what are you going to do to protect your family?
Are They Really "Free"?
Most "no cost" web filters do not present all of the features that it promised initially. It's basically a marketing tool, to give you "a taste" of what the actual filter is all about. And after using this "incomplete" porn blocker, they'll start asking you to purchase bonus packs and other additional software. You may not realize this, but the porn industry is a billion dollar industry. They have been in this business a long time, and they know exactly how to design their adult content to slip "under the nets" of web filters, not to mention a FREE ones! They use various methods of getting their content onto your computer... without the use of a website. All they need is a few misspelled URLs, email links, and Pop-ups to dump their trash onto your desktop. These are just a few of the basic tactics that porn industries use to entice men and boys. So what's the use of downloading a free web-filtering software?
Ineffective Website Blocking
There are no guarantees that your web filter will be able to block all porn because hey, it's free! If you had a filter that blocked out sites containing only mature words and porn company names, all the porn workers have to do is misspell their site's domain name (as mentioned above), or they could simply give their site a neutral name like "White House". The keyword "Playboy" would obviously get blocked, but a keyword like "White House"... of course not.
File Sharing Sites
A free porn blocker is unable to block file-sharing websites. What is a file sharing site, and why do you need to block them? File-sharing sites are where people can come and download free music, videos, games, and almost anything else that's downloadable. But these sites are illegal. They contain free music that someone else paid for (the same goes for movies). So if you can download almost anything at file-sharing sites, then what about porn movie clips? Absolutely.
So now you can see the reasons why free web filters are surely a waste of time. But there's more bad news. Most of the "paid" (yes paid) porn blockers are just as bad as if it were a free one. They cannot stop the examples mentioned above. So what are you going to do to protect your family?
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Learn How to Overcome a Porn Addiction
Everyone knows that the Internet is filled with an abundance of easy-to-find pornography that can be easily downloaded or viewed 24 hours a day. There are many different types of pornography available on the Internet, everything from photos to videos, a little something for everyone. You don't even need to pay money to access some of the hardcore porn websites on the Internet, because many people have become savvy to the filter technology that is used by many pay sites, making it easy to enter without too much effort.
Unfortunately, all this easy access to online pornography makes it extremely difficult for a person that has a porn addiction or the potential to become addicted to porn. It just makes it way to easy for a person with an Internet connection and a porn addiction to give into their temptations.
A lot of people wonder why people who suffer from a porn addiction don't just quit looking.
After all, most porn addicts really want to quit. Think about it, it can damage your sex life, make your spouse or significant other very upset, leaving the addict with feelings of guilt and shame. Unfortunately, an addict can't just stop. Most psychiatrists have accepted the fact that a person who suffers from a pornography addiction actually suffers from a mental disorder which can be effectively treated and cured.
You might wonder, what are the signs of porn addiction?
The true definition of a porn addiction is someone that has a difficult time limiting the amount of time that they spend looking at pornographic images - either photos or videos. Porn addiction is similar to other types of addiction disorders, so determining if someone truly suffers from this problem is quite simple.
General Characteristics of a Porn Addict:
* Inability to resist strong urges to view pornographic materials.
* A feeling of increased tension just prior to viewing pornographic materials.
* A feeling of relief or pleasure while looking at the pornographic materials.
Must also experience at least five of the following additional characteristics:
* Feels frequently preoccupied with getting access to pornography or being able to see pornography.
* Views pornographic materials on a frequent basis.
* Tries to stop or control viewing pornographic materials repeated.
* Spends a lot of time on the Internet to the point where it interferes with normal daily life.
* Pornography viewing habits interfere with daily life such as home, school, work or other obligations.
* Misses or gives up activities that are work-related, recreational or social in order to have more time to spend watching pornography.
* Recognizes that the habit is causing problems, but continuing it anyway.
* Feels the need to increase the frequency or intensity of viewing pornography in order to still feel the same effects.
* Feels irritable or restless is pornography access is not available or is denied in some way.
Perhaps the biggest question, however, is how to stop a porn addict from accessing pornography online.
The best way to talk with someone that you suspect may have a porn addiction is to speak with them openly about it. If the person is viewing pornography online, then there really is a lot that you can do to help. The first step, obviously, is to remove the temptation. You don't necessarily have to remove the computer from the home or rip out the Internet connection from the wall.
Once the person admits that they have a problem with a porn addiction and asks for help in controlling the problem, the best way to do it is to remove their access to pornographic materials on the Internet. You can easily achieve this by installing a simple porn blocker or web filter so you can prevent websites that contain sex or other materials from being able to load on your computer. MyPornBlocker is one of the top web filter software solutions available and is easy to install onto your computer. Using a web filter program can be a very quick and easy way to help remove the immediate access to pornographic materials and a great first step to beating porn addiction.
Unfortunately, all this easy access to online pornography makes it extremely difficult for a person that has a porn addiction or the potential to become addicted to porn. It just makes it way to easy for a person with an Internet connection and a porn addiction to give into their temptations.
A lot of people wonder why people who suffer from a porn addiction don't just quit looking.
After all, most porn addicts really want to quit. Think about it, it can damage your sex life, make your spouse or significant other very upset, leaving the addict with feelings of guilt and shame. Unfortunately, an addict can't just stop. Most psychiatrists have accepted the fact that a person who suffers from a pornography addiction actually suffers from a mental disorder which can be effectively treated and cured.
You might wonder, what are the signs of porn addiction?
The true definition of a porn addiction is someone that has a difficult time limiting the amount of time that they spend looking at pornographic images - either photos or videos. Porn addiction is similar to other types of addiction disorders, so determining if someone truly suffers from this problem is quite simple.
General Characteristics of a Porn Addict:
* Inability to resist strong urges to view pornographic materials.
* A feeling of increased tension just prior to viewing pornographic materials.
* A feeling of relief or pleasure while looking at the pornographic materials.
Must also experience at least five of the following additional characteristics:
* Feels frequently preoccupied with getting access to pornography or being able to see pornography.
* Views pornographic materials on a frequent basis.
* Tries to stop or control viewing pornographic materials repeated.
* Spends a lot of time on the Internet to the point where it interferes with normal daily life.
* Pornography viewing habits interfere with daily life such as home, school, work or other obligations.
* Misses or gives up activities that are work-related, recreational or social in order to have more time to spend watching pornography.
* Recognizes that the habit is causing problems, but continuing it anyway.
* Feels the need to increase the frequency or intensity of viewing pornography in order to still feel the same effects.
* Feels irritable or restless is pornography access is not available or is denied in some way.
Perhaps the biggest question, however, is how to stop a porn addict from accessing pornography online.
The best way to talk with someone that you suspect may have a porn addiction is to speak with them openly about it. If the person is viewing pornography online, then there really is a lot that you can do to help. The first step, obviously, is to remove the temptation. You don't necessarily have to remove the computer from the home or rip out the Internet connection from the wall.
Once the person admits that they have a problem with a porn addiction and asks for help in controlling the problem, the best way to do it is to remove their access to pornographic materials on the Internet. You can easily achieve this by installing a simple porn blocker or web filter so you can prevent websites that contain sex or other materials from being able to load on your computer. MyPornBlocker is one of the top web filter software solutions available and is easy to install onto your computer. Using a web filter program can be a very quick and easy way to help remove the immediate access to pornographic materials and a great first step to beating porn addiction.
Monday, April 2, 2012
Pornography As a Turn-On for Fun-Driven Adult Sex
Adventurous couples can buy a pornographic video and watch it together. That is generally a surefire way to end up in bed. In fact, it is usually when couples are in bed that they watch such films. And if the film is a good one they will enjoy being turned on as they watch it. Many couples find that the provocative content stimulates them to duplicate what is being viewed. They are impulsively driven to touch each other, kid around, mimic the sex acts, and swing from the imagined chandelier as they tickle each other's fancy.
In many countries in the world, including most industrialized ones, pornography is not banned or hidden from view. For example, at King's Cross district in Sydney, Australia a section of the city is designated to show and sell pornography Sex oriented videos, DVDs, books, sex toys, lubricants, assumed aphrodisiacs, are sold in kiosks and stores. Strip clubs, restaurants, massage parlors and other clubs are available to meet members of the opposite sex.
In Europe, in many countries, and cities pornography is not hidden and thus available for adults. In all the countries there are restrictions to the sale of pornography to children and prosecution of offenders is open and continuous.
In the US pornography is not banned from sale to adults although there is no tolerance on anyone abusing the Child Pornography laws.
But for the purpose of improving the sex life of adults pornography has a place for some. Do you have to be lonely or hard-up to use porn? The answer is No. Porn can be a substitute for sex for many lonely and sex starved adults, mainly men, and for adults without a partner who like visual stimulation for self-arousal.
Finally, let's examine whether pornography can fit into the armamentarium of the average adult who wishes for increased stimulation for lovemaking. What can porno offer?
As with any movie there is added stimulation by watching real pictures compared to imaging such scenes. Some porno videos actually tell a reasonable story where there is more than just sexual exploitation. So some selection is necessary. Google is a good resource to discover what are considered the best sex videos made in the past few decades.
Beside adding visual stimulation couples can mimic what they see, learn about new positions, empathize with the excitement of the sex partners, imagine participating in the viewed sex, experience sex beyond their own interests, such as gay, bi, S and M, bondage, oral and anal sex, and the use of fetishes. Some show dancing, foreplay that could be stimulating and perhaps above all can act as a stimulus to open the viewers to become freer and lustier about sex.
If you attempt to try out the benefits of sex videos and it is new to you imagine becoming an adventurer and explorer so you don't take a negative bias into your viewing. An open mind will allow you to gain what might be there for you. At the very worst it won't have any effect on you and may even turn you off. If so, just chalk it up as another interesting experience.
To determine if pornography may be a stimulus for your personal sex life approach its use openly. It might be a new vehicle for greater enjoyment of sex for occasional use or even frequent use. Remember adults have no restrictions on what they mutually do and prefer behind closed doors. So enjoy the movies and enjoy the sex and know you have taken another step to gaining a new stimulus for sex and love.
In many countries in the world, including most industrialized ones, pornography is not banned or hidden from view. For example, at King's Cross district in Sydney, Australia a section of the city is designated to show and sell pornography Sex oriented videos, DVDs, books, sex toys, lubricants, assumed aphrodisiacs, are sold in kiosks and stores. Strip clubs, restaurants, massage parlors and other clubs are available to meet members of the opposite sex.
In Europe, in many countries, and cities pornography is not hidden and thus available for adults. In all the countries there are restrictions to the sale of pornography to children and prosecution of offenders is open and continuous.
In the US pornography is not banned from sale to adults although there is no tolerance on anyone abusing the Child Pornography laws.
But for the purpose of improving the sex life of adults pornography has a place for some. Do you have to be lonely or hard-up to use porn? The answer is No. Porn can be a substitute for sex for many lonely and sex starved adults, mainly men, and for adults without a partner who like visual stimulation for self-arousal.
Finally, let's examine whether pornography can fit into the armamentarium of the average adult who wishes for increased stimulation for lovemaking. What can porno offer?
As with any movie there is added stimulation by watching real pictures compared to imaging such scenes. Some porno videos actually tell a reasonable story where there is more than just sexual exploitation. So some selection is necessary. Google is a good resource to discover what are considered the best sex videos made in the past few decades.
Beside adding visual stimulation couples can mimic what they see, learn about new positions, empathize with the excitement of the sex partners, imagine participating in the viewed sex, experience sex beyond their own interests, such as gay, bi, S and M, bondage, oral and anal sex, and the use of fetishes. Some show dancing, foreplay that could be stimulating and perhaps above all can act as a stimulus to open the viewers to become freer and lustier about sex.
If you attempt to try out the benefits of sex videos and it is new to you imagine becoming an adventurer and explorer so you don't take a negative bias into your viewing. An open mind will allow you to gain what might be there for you. At the very worst it won't have any effect on you and may even turn you off. If so, just chalk it up as another interesting experience.
To determine if pornography may be a stimulus for your personal sex life approach its use openly. It might be a new vehicle for greater enjoyment of sex for occasional use or even frequent use. Remember adults have no restrictions on what they mutually do and prefer behind closed doors. So enjoy the movies and enjoy the sex and know you have taken another step to gaining a new stimulus for sex and love.
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Hardcore Porn Movies and Photos
There is no gainsaying the fact that most women are not turned on by the type of porn movies and pictures you see everywhere especially on the internet. In fact, most females are put off by it and they are often not happy with their spouses watching them. These porn movies are scripted mostly by men who have never taken the pains or pleasure of finding out what their women want in bed from them. Most of the men just jump on the bed and pounce on the hapless women who, out of a duty to them, try to fall in line and pretend to enjoy sex with them though most would have gradually opted out of it.
Over 95.74% of hardcore movies available online and offline are made for the enjoyment of males and for the satisfaction of the male sexual needs.
What are the general themes of these movies?
Male sexual satisfaction.
What is the usual mode of operation?
Male domination.
How do these movies ordinarily operate?
The very muscular well endowed male desires sex and meets a very small thin girl and they start romancing and move on to foreplay. The man manhandles the girl any whichever way he wants in the name of foreplay. The hapless girl who must earn a living responds by making noise they assume are turning their watchers on. Then the man mounts her and sex takes place.
The movie ends with the man dismounting and stimulating himself to ejaculation which he deposits on the face or in the mouth or on the body of the girl. The movie then ends. The man is congratulated [I suppose] for a wonderful performance and the girl is paid her wages. And they call this sex and expect women to enjoy it.
For women, sex is not just a physical thing. It involves the emotions as well. Intimacy is a better word for it. Any man who recognizes this and applies the knowledge will always have women adoring him in bed and afterward.
Over 95.74% of hardcore movies available online and offline are made for the enjoyment of males and for the satisfaction of the male sexual needs.
What are the general themes of these movies?
Male sexual satisfaction.
What is the usual mode of operation?
Male domination.
How do these movies ordinarily operate?
The very muscular well endowed male desires sex and meets a very small thin girl and they start romancing and move on to foreplay. The man manhandles the girl any whichever way he wants in the name of foreplay. The hapless girl who must earn a living responds by making noise they assume are turning their watchers on. Then the man mounts her and sex takes place.
The movie ends with the man dismounting and stimulating himself to ejaculation which he deposits on the face or in the mouth or on the body of the girl. The movie then ends. The man is congratulated [I suppose] for a wonderful performance and the girl is paid her wages. And they call this sex and expect women to enjoy it.
For women, sex is not just a physical thing. It involves the emotions as well. Intimacy is a better word for it. Any man who recognizes this and applies the knowledge will always have women adoring him in bed and afterward.
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Porn - Here's How To Get Your Woman To Watch "Naughty Movies"
Most men tend to really like PORN MOVIES. Heck, I believe that in some ways "adult movies" are partly responsible for this current generation of men being unable to satisfy their women in the bedroom.
You see, when you have sex with your woman it is a visual and auditory experience - just like porn. However, unlike porn - when you have sex with your woman there are other senses involved, those being FEEL, SMELL and TASTE.
Basically, I think that when men watch too much porn - they become reliant on what they see and hear. Then, when they have "real sex" with their woman, they are not tuned in enough to what they feel, smell and taste.
So BE CAREFUL WITH PORN.
With that said, it can be fun to watch NAUGHTY movies with your woman - but you have to go about it the right way (and most men don't).
First of all - if you are not giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex - DO NOT watch porn with her. The reason why is because if your woman sees a female porn star getting much more sexual pleasure on screen than you are giving her - your woman is likely to feel confused, annoyed and perhaps even angry with you!
So, get the sex working properly with your woman before you try to watch porn with her.
However, if you are giving your woman mind-blowing sex - feel free to watch porn with her occasionally.
Here Is How To Get Your Woman To Watch "Naughty Movies" With You
There is definitely something kinky and a little naughty about you and your woman "getting it on"; whilst you are watching other people "get it on" in a porn movie.
And women love to GET NAUGHTY - so this can be powerful.
The way to get your woman to watch porn with you is to choose the type of porn you watch with her very carefully.
You see, we guys tend to be happy watching any porn, as long as the woman (or women) is very attractive. We also tend to like to watch Lesbian porn.
However, your woman is a bit more picky when it comes to what porn will turn her on. Here is what most women want to watch:
They want to watch porn with a STORY LINE. And they want that story line to be a little naughty, a little wrong and a little perverse.
We guys don't mind if the porn actors just start having sex as soon as the scene starts.
BUT - your woman wants to see FOREPLAY in the porn that you watch with her; just like she wants you to give her foreplay before you have sex with her (you do give your woman foreplay, right?).
So, let me really HELP YOU OUT by giving you some ideas of the type of porn and story lines that your woman will probably find a turn on:
- Naughty school girl being called to the headmaster's office and then getting "punished" for being a bad girl
- Anything very artistic (women like those movies where the guys where masks and the women where leather cat-suits where the crotch unzips and everything else stays on)
- A woman takes her car in for a service, then realises she has no money to pay - so she pays the workers at the garage in "another way"
Do you get this?
Do you see how your woman's mind works?
Women want the porn with the REALLY NAUGHTY story lines that slowly build up to sex. They do not want to watch the porn that jumps straight into sex because they find it boring.
So, if you want to get your woman to watch porn with you...
- Use it rarely (once every 6 to 8 weeks). Do not start trying to watch porn with your woman every night
- Choose porn that your woman will like (clever, naughty, slightly perverse, "wrong" story lines)
- Make sure you are giving your woman incredible sex BEFORE you start to introduce porn into your bedroom. If you aren't giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex with, get that happening before you think about porn.
More than anything - your woman wants you to give her ORGASMS. Remember that.
You see, when you have sex with your woman it is a visual and auditory experience - just like porn. However, unlike porn - when you have sex with your woman there are other senses involved, those being FEEL, SMELL and TASTE.
Basically, I think that when men watch too much porn - they become reliant on what they see and hear. Then, when they have "real sex" with their woman, they are not tuned in enough to what they feel, smell and taste.
So BE CAREFUL WITH PORN.
With that said, it can be fun to watch NAUGHTY movies with your woman - but you have to go about it the right way (and most men don't).
First of all - if you are not giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex - DO NOT watch porn with her. The reason why is because if your woman sees a female porn star getting much more sexual pleasure on screen than you are giving her - your woman is likely to feel confused, annoyed and perhaps even angry with you!
So, get the sex working properly with your woman before you try to watch porn with her.
However, if you are giving your woman mind-blowing sex - feel free to watch porn with her occasionally.
Here Is How To Get Your Woman To Watch "Naughty Movies" With You
There is definitely something kinky and a little naughty about you and your woman "getting it on"; whilst you are watching other people "get it on" in a porn movie.
And women love to GET NAUGHTY - so this can be powerful.
The way to get your woman to watch porn with you is to choose the type of porn you watch with her very carefully.
You see, we guys tend to be happy watching any porn, as long as the woman (or women) is very attractive. We also tend to like to watch Lesbian porn.
However, your woman is a bit more picky when it comes to what porn will turn her on. Here is what most women want to watch:
They want to watch porn with a STORY LINE. And they want that story line to be a little naughty, a little wrong and a little perverse.
We guys don't mind if the porn actors just start having sex as soon as the scene starts.
BUT - your woman wants to see FOREPLAY in the porn that you watch with her; just like she wants you to give her foreplay before you have sex with her (you do give your woman foreplay, right?).
So, let me really HELP YOU OUT by giving you some ideas of the type of porn and story lines that your woman will probably find a turn on:
- Naughty school girl being called to the headmaster's office and then getting "punished" for being a bad girl
- Anything very artistic (women like those movies where the guys where masks and the women where leather cat-suits where the crotch unzips and everything else stays on)
- A woman takes her car in for a service, then realises she has no money to pay - so she pays the workers at the garage in "another way"
Do you get this?
Do you see how your woman's mind works?
Women want the porn with the REALLY NAUGHTY story lines that slowly build up to sex. They do not want to watch the porn that jumps straight into sex because they find it boring.
So, if you want to get your woman to watch porn with you...
- Use it rarely (once every 6 to 8 weeks). Do not start trying to watch porn with your woman every night
- Choose porn that your woman will like (clever, naughty, slightly perverse, "wrong" story lines)
- Make sure you are giving your woman incredible sex BEFORE you start to introduce porn into your bedroom. If you aren't giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex with, get that happening before you think about porn.
More than anything - your woman wants you to give her ORGASMS. Remember that.
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
The Adult Film Industry Absolutely Sucks
You might think the title of this article sounds a little extreme, but it's not.
Allow me to explain...
I'm a firm believer that a man's greatest pleasure in life is to totally SEXUALLY SATISFY his woman in the bedroom.
You know what I'm saying, right?
Giving your woman mind-blowing, earth-shattering SEXUAL PLEASURE beyond her wildest dreams -- that makes you feel pretty good.
And that's where the 'adult film industry' falls flat on it's face most of the time.
You see, most porn is made for a male audience and it just shows female porn stars usually being quite roughly 'screwed' by male porn stars.
Now I'm not against rough sex.
In fact, it's my experience and that of my clients that most women like the sex to be a little rough most of the time.
But there's another thing women also like during sex -- ORGASMS.
And this is why I say that porn movies are a bad education for men because the women on screen rarely seem to have an orgasm!
I believe that as a society our social skills are becoming worse with time. People are resorting to communicating with friends by electronic means (Facebook, Twitter etc) and we are forgetting how to communicate in 'real life'.
This is leading to a lot of single people.
And what do single men tend to do a lot of?
You got it -- watch porn.
So they see women having sex and getting roughed up, but they don't see a lot of orgasms. And that's a very bad thing because when these guys eventually get a woman -- they don't know what the hell they are doing in bed.
Here's a pretty interesting FACT:
- 50% of women have CHEATED and most of them did so to GET BETTER SEX
And by better sex, you can read -- GET MORE ORGASMS.
With all that said, I should just clarify that I'm not a 'porn hater'. In fact, I've found some women I've dated enjoy porn. But they are very specific about what kind of porn movies they like to watch.
Usually it's the ones with a bit of a believable story line and the ones where the women look like they are ENJOYING IT, read -- having orgasms.
Women do not like to watch the run of the mill, 'bang, bang, bang', all about the male actor type porn.
So, what's the bottom line?
Well, if you are single right now -- spend more time off your computer, interacting with real people and don't use porn as your sex-education tool.
If you are in a relationship, be very careful about what type of porn you get your woman to watch with you (if you do that kind of thing).
Above all else, whatever your current relationship status -- remember to give women incredible pleasure and wild screaming orgasms in the bedroom. Do that and you'll be doing better than 90% of the men out there.
Allow me to explain...
I'm a firm believer that a man's greatest pleasure in life is to totally SEXUALLY SATISFY his woman in the bedroom.
You know what I'm saying, right?
Giving your woman mind-blowing, earth-shattering SEXUAL PLEASURE beyond her wildest dreams -- that makes you feel pretty good.
And that's where the 'adult film industry' falls flat on it's face most of the time.
You see, most porn is made for a male audience and it just shows female porn stars usually being quite roughly 'screwed' by male porn stars.
Now I'm not against rough sex.
In fact, it's my experience and that of my clients that most women like the sex to be a little rough most of the time.
But there's another thing women also like during sex -- ORGASMS.
And this is why I say that porn movies are a bad education for men because the women on screen rarely seem to have an orgasm!
I believe that as a society our social skills are becoming worse with time. People are resorting to communicating with friends by electronic means (Facebook, Twitter etc) and we are forgetting how to communicate in 'real life'.
This is leading to a lot of single people.
And what do single men tend to do a lot of?
You got it -- watch porn.
So they see women having sex and getting roughed up, but they don't see a lot of orgasms. And that's a very bad thing because when these guys eventually get a woman -- they don't know what the hell they are doing in bed.
Here's a pretty interesting FACT:
- 50% of women have CHEATED and most of them did so to GET BETTER SEX
And by better sex, you can read -- GET MORE ORGASMS.
With all that said, I should just clarify that I'm not a 'porn hater'. In fact, I've found some women I've dated enjoy porn. But they are very specific about what kind of porn movies they like to watch.
Usually it's the ones with a bit of a believable story line and the ones where the women look like they are ENJOYING IT, read -- having orgasms.
Women do not like to watch the run of the mill, 'bang, bang, bang', all about the male actor type porn.
So, what's the bottom line?
Well, if you are single right now -- spend more time off your computer, interacting with real people and don't use porn as your sex-education tool.
If you are in a relationship, be very careful about what type of porn you get your woman to watch with you (if you do that kind of thing).
Above all else, whatever your current relationship status -- remember to give women incredible pleasure and wild screaming orgasms in the bedroom. Do that and you'll be doing better than 90% of the men out there.
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Adult Mobile Videos
The market for adult mobile videos is growing by a phenomenal rate. Recent findings show that global advertising for mobile porn could top $4.9 billion by 2013. With the advance in mobile technology and handsets like iPhone and Blackberry and new innovations in mobile billing, the adult mobile videos industry is becoming extremely lucrative. So what and where is the future of adult mobile videos?
At the moment the vast majority of the global spend is focused in Europe, as the United States is far behind in 3G coverage technology and imposing age restriction services means operators are not prepared to cope with adult advertising, hence there is a massive difference by comparison between Western Europe and the United States, each respectively accounting for 42% and only 2%.
It is not particularly clear how America will receive the next wave of adult mobile video services to their mobile viewing audience. And Far beyond the slight availability of the content is whether or not it will become acceptable, from a social point of view to walk across the road viewing adult content.
According to latest market information, from Bango mobile billing and analytics, contrary to the present successes of iPhone sales figures, the handset only accounts for 1.12% of all mobile downloads, I can't imagine that a huge amount for this small percentage is then adult content either. Being pretty much the most advanced mobile phone out there it goes without saying that there is potentially a huge target audience for adult mobile video which has yet to be exploited. Perhaps the mobile technology barrier has still got a nasty grip?
It will be rather intriguing to find out just how much of the expected growth of the adult mobile industry come forth over the next few years. The ultimate fact is, mobile marketing is impressively effective with industry standard "clickthru" rates of almost 10 times more than the average PC based internet advertising campaign. It can't be denied that if served up correctly, adult mobile content can be monetized exponentially by various methods including per download, credit card billing, mobile billing, monthly subscriptions and affiliate products.
Moving on from this, the generation of high quality adult content for the visitors wishing to download adult mobile videos is also important, however integrating the content across today's social networks is difficult but could open up a flood gate of traffic to adult sites. Where lies the future of adult mobile. The next generation of handsets hold the answer.
At the moment the vast majority of the global spend is focused in Europe, as the United States is far behind in 3G coverage technology and imposing age restriction services means operators are not prepared to cope with adult advertising, hence there is a massive difference by comparison between Western Europe and the United States, each respectively accounting for 42% and only 2%.
It is not particularly clear how America will receive the next wave of adult mobile video services to their mobile viewing audience. And Far beyond the slight availability of the content is whether or not it will become acceptable, from a social point of view to walk across the road viewing adult content.
According to latest market information, from Bango mobile billing and analytics, contrary to the present successes of iPhone sales figures, the handset only accounts for 1.12% of all mobile downloads, I can't imagine that a huge amount for this small percentage is then adult content either. Being pretty much the most advanced mobile phone out there it goes without saying that there is potentially a huge target audience for adult mobile video which has yet to be exploited. Perhaps the mobile technology barrier has still got a nasty grip?
It will be rather intriguing to find out just how much of the expected growth of the adult mobile industry come forth over the next few years. The ultimate fact is, mobile marketing is impressively effective with industry standard "clickthru" rates of almost 10 times more than the average PC based internet advertising campaign. It can't be denied that if served up correctly, adult mobile content can be monetized exponentially by various methods including per download, credit card billing, mobile billing, monthly subscriptions and affiliate products.
Moving on from this, the generation of high quality adult content for the visitors wishing to download adult mobile videos is also important, however integrating the content across today's social networks is difficult but could open up a flood gate of traffic to adult sites. Where lies the future of adult mobile. The next generation of handsets hold the answer.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Your Relationships and Sexuality
My friend came into the office looking tired and depressed. Obviously something was very wrong. "She left me, and I wasn't even cheating!" "Tell me what happened," I asked. He started to explain his porn habits. His earliest exposure was in his early teens. At first it was occasional glances and guilt ridden attempts to access his dad or elder brothers' Playboy magazines. This went on and escalated through high school and college. There was still a hint of shame, but it made way for addiction.
Slippery Road. The pages of soft porn magazines were replaced with an enormous world of ever-expanding web pages - full of nude naughty girls apparently wanting to just have sex all day with anyone. He told me, with a wry smile, that during his college years he had to repeat some classes because he would get stuck watching porn all night and miss his early morning lectures. Now it seems to affect his whole life, his relationships and his job. Two weeks later, he was asked to leave the office due to allegations of sexual harassment. Obviously something was not right.
Today due to bandwidth and technology advances, video is the new web experience, and the multi-billion dollar porn industry knows just what to do with video.
Promiscuous Culture. This is an everyday thing though. Really. In a recent survey of college students in the US, The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy (NCPTUP) determined that more than 80% of men and more than 50% of women said they had been exposed to pornography by age 14. The same survey has shown that 25% of teen girls and 33% of teen boys have had nude or semi-nude images - originally meant to be seen by someone else - shared with them online or on mobile phones. This phenomena has become more widespread due to almost every teenager walking around with a mobile device capable of taking high quality pictures and videos. Recently a group of under-aged youths in South Africa were arrested for 'raping' a 14-year old girl. What perspired was that the sex was consensual and that they filmed it for entertainment.
How it affects us all. Is behaviour like this normal? How does exposure to pornography contribute to behaviour and will this impact on our relationships, marriages, or our children later in life? If you met more than 5 people today chances are at least one or two of them have watched porn today (or will). Porn affects not only the user but also the 'passive' user. When relationships suffer, the whole of society is affected
Signs of addiction and recovery. How do you know you are an addict? Here are some guidelines.
You are on a path of * violent mood swings and strong cravings to satisfy your need to watch porn. You become anti-social and will let watching porn infringe on time with family and friends. * increasingly neglecting responsibilities. You miss deadlines, become less dependable at work or school or in your relationship. * seeing more and more legal issues coming up. Divorce, debt, or any other issues related to your addiction. You may find it hard maintaining a job and you may start spending money you don't have feeding the insatiable appetite for more and more hardcore material as your tolerance is built up. Eventually financial hardships follow.*
Recovery is not an overnight switch though. It takes effort and sometimes just common sense. Like all addicts, there is the denial element, the "I can stop at any time" syndrome. We will assume after reading the above paragraph, you must admit you fit the profile. Pornography addiction is like any other addiction because it follows the same psychological (and sometimes physiological) pattern.
The dependent becomes addicted to a specific release or high reached after performing some kind of ritualistic act or behaviour. The relief or elation becomes a coping mechanism to deal with emotional and other life issues. Because addiction is cyclical, this scene will repeat and escalate in varied ways to reach the desired level of release. The thought process leading to this repetitive pattern becomes embedded as beneficial behaviour despite negative consequences for the addict, and in many cases, for other people. It may be years before the addict becomes fully aware of the consequences of his actions leaving him feeling out of control.
There is hope. Recovery is possible. Addicts hardly ever can do this alone though and many times intervention is the best way to bring a positive change. Willpower is not enough unfortunately especially if you have had setbacks before. The help and support of those around addicts is crucial for long term results.Some tips to start the road to recovery: * Addiction is not a 'terminal' disease. It is not a disease period. You have a choice and you have to make it. * Get help from family and friends. Only with help will you truly be able to live free from addiction. Accountability software for internet addicts is one of the most effective ways to get help. * Don't wait for rock bottom. The earlier you identify your problem, the better for all. * It didn't work before, it won't again. Setbacks may be part of the road to recovery. Don't use setbacks as a reason not to commit to a better outlook on your life. * Intervention may be the way to go. Hopefully there is someone that cares for you enough to organise an intervention. By installing accountability software on computers in your home or business, you can monitor the internet use and even filter it. Usually this type of software demands a code to be uninstalled.
Slippery Road. The pages of soft porn magazines were replaced with an enormous world of ever-expanding web pages - full of nude naughty girls apparently wanting to just have sex all day with anyone. He told me, with a wry smile, that during his college years he had to repeat some classes because he would get stuck watching porn all night and miss his early morning lectures. Now it seems to affect his whole life, his relationships and his job. Two weeks later, he was asked to leave the office due to allegations of sexual harassment. Obviously something was not right.
Today due to bandwidth and technology advances, video is the new web experience, and the multi-billion dollar porn industry knows just what to do with video.
Promiscuous Culture. This is an everyday thing though. Really. In a recent survey of college students in the US, The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy (NCPTUP) determined that more than 80% of men and more than 50% of women said they had been exposed to pornography by age 14. The same survey has shown that 25% of teen girls and 33% of teen boys have had nude or semi-nude images - originally meant to be seen by someone else - shared with them online or on mobile phones. This phenomena has become more widespread due to almost every teenager walking around with a mobile device capable of taking high quality pictures and videos. Recently a group of under-aged youths in South Africa were arrested for 'raping' a 14-year old girl. What perspired was that the sex was consensual and that they filmed it for entertainment.
How it affects us all. Is behaviour like this normal? How does exposure to pornography contribute to behaviour and will this impact on our relationships, marriages, or our children later in life? If you met more than 5 people today chances are at least one or two of them have watched porn today (or will). Porn affects not only the user but also the 'passive' user. When relationships suffer, the whole of society is affected
Signs of addiction and recovery. How do you know you are an addict? Here are some guidelines.
You are on a path of * violent mood swings and strong cravings to satisfy your need to watch porn. You become anti-social and will let watching porn infringe on time with family and friends. * increasingly neglecting responsibilities. You miss deadlines, become less dependable at work or school or in your relationship. * seeing more and more legal issues coming up. Divorce, debt, or any other issues related to your addiction. You may find it hard maintaining a job and you may start spending money you don't have feeding the insatiable appetite for more and more hardcore material as your tolerance is built up. Eventually financial hardships follow.*
Recovery is not an overnight switch though. It takes effort and sometimes just common sense. Like all addicts, there is the denial element, the "I can stop at any time" syndrome. We will assume after reading the above paragraph, you must admit you fit the profile. Pornography addiction is like any other addiction because it follows the same psychological (and sometimes physiological) pattern.
The dependent becomes addicted to a specific release or high reached after performing some kind of ritualistic act or behaviour. The relief or elation becomes a coping mechanism to deal with emotional and other life issues. Because addiction is cyclical, this scene will repeat and escalate in varied ways to reach the desired level of release. The thought process leading to this repetitive pattern becomes embedded as beneficial behaviour despite negative consequences for the addict, and in many cases, for other people. It may be years before the addict becomes fully aware of the consequences of his actions leaving him feeling out of control.
There is hope. Recovery is possible. Addicts hardly ever can do this alone though and many times intervention is the best way to bring a positive change. Willpower is not enough unfortunately especially if you have had setbacks before. The help and support of those around addicts is crucial for long term results.Some tips to start the road to recovery: * Addiction is not a 'terminal' disease. It is not a disease period. You have a choice and you have to make it. * Get help from family and friends. Only with help will you truly be able to live free from addiction. Accountability software for internet addicts is one of the most effective ways to get help. * Don't wait for rock bottom. The earlier you identify your problem, the better for all. * It didn't work before, it won't again. Setbacks may be part of the road to recovery. Don't use setbacks as a reason not to commit to a better outlook on your life. * Intervention may be the way to go. Hopefully there is someone that cares for you enough to organise an intervention. By installing accountability software on computers in your home or business, you can monitor the internet use and even filter it. Usually this type of software demands a code to be uninstalled.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
The Dangers of Christian Porn Addiction
The grip of Christian porn addiction is a problem worldwide. With the widespread availability of pornographic images and material on the Internet in particular many Christian men and women are being caught in the horrible and unrelenting grip of sexually addictive behaviours and thought patterns. For many it has destroyed their self esteem, their relationships and their marriages. Others however have made the decision that Christian porn addiction and masturbation addiction is not going to be lord over their lives and have taken steps to break free from its grip. You can too.
The Internet is sadly full of images and material that can be very detrimental to our sexual health and well being. Even more concerning is that some web sites prey upon unsuspecting Christians, enticing them to view images of naked men and women and thereby beginning the journey toward addiction. Often what begins as an accidental chance upon a site with porn images on it, soon becomes an active search for similar images. What is a soft porn image today, becomes hard porn later on.
Like any addiction, freedom is within reach, and especially for the Christian porn addict because we have God working with us to help us walk to freedom. But, as with any addiction, quality decisions need to be made to break out of the cycle of habitual viewing of pornography, whether it be on the Internet, on your mobile phone or in magazines.
Most who now enjoy that freedom have needed help to take these steps, and then help with each subsequent step - a form of accountability that holds them on the narrow path that leads to a new life free from the pain and shame of Christian porn addiction. Fortunately such help exists in the form of protective software fro your computer that will aid your recovery, and some ground breaking self help programs that put the necessary tools in your hand to break completely free of porn.
The cost of continuing in sexually addictive behaviour, in terms of relationships, self esteem and future happiness, is so much more than the cost of breaking free. Make the decision today that your future will be porn free.
The Internet is sadly full of images and material that can be very detrimental to our sexual health and well being. Even more concerning is that some web sites prey upon unsuspecting Christians, enticing them to view images of naked men and women and thereby beginning the journey toward addiction. Often what begins as an accidental chance upon a site with porn images on it, soon becomes an active search for similar images. What is a soft porn image today, becomes hard porn later on.
Like any addiction, freedom is within reach, and especially for the Christian porn addict because we have God working with us to help us walk to freedom. But, as with any addiction, quality decisions need to be made to break out of the cycle of habitual viewing of pornography, whether it be on the Internet, on your mobile phone or in magazines.
Most who now enjoy that freedom have needed help to take these steps, and then help with each subsequent step - a form of accountability that holds them on the narrow path that leads to a new life free from the pain and shame of Christian porn addiction. Fortunately such help exists in the form of protective software fro your computer that will aid your recovery, and some ground breaking self help programs that put the necessary tools in your hand to break completely free of porn.
The cost of continuing in sexually addictive behaviour, in terms of relationships, self esteem and future happiness, is so much more than the cost of breaking free. Make the decision today that your future will be porn free.
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